Announcing your baby wish list with kindness: tips and message ideas for sharing this special moment

Preparing for the arrival of a baby often means making some very practical choices: organising the nursery, thinking about daily essentials, and anticipating future needs. If you’ve decided to create a baby wish list to let loved ones know what might be helpful, you may be wondering how to share it in a way that feels natural and not too forward...

Here are a few thoughtful tips from the Petite Amélie team

A wish list isn’t a request – it’s an invitation

Creating a baby wish list means carefully gathering the essentials that will support those first days, first nights, and first family rituals. It’s about choosing what will truly be useful and sometimes, what simply holds meaning.

For your loved ones, it’s also a gentle way to get involved. Choosing a gift from the heart can be a beautiful gesture, allowing them to take part in the joyful wait. The key lies in how you share it.

How to approach the subject naturally

There’s no need to overthink or over-explain — often, a simple and heartfelt message is all it takes. Write as if you were speaking to a friend. Here are some tips for striking the right tone:

• Be sincere: You’re sharing a special moment, not asking for anything.
• Keep it simple: No need for lengthy explanations or formalities.
• Offer an open door: Those who wish to contribute can do so freely, while others will appreciate simply being included.
• Adapt your message to the format: A printed card, a message or an email — each one calls for a different tone.

Ready-to-use text examples (or inspiration to adapt)

For a card or birth announcement
For those who would like to join us in this beautiful adventure,
we’ve put together a few baby essentials in a wish list,
carefully chosen with simplicity and love.
You can view it here: [Link to the list]
Thank you for being part of such a precious moment.

For a warm and elegant email
Hello everyone,
The arrival of our baby is just around the corner, and we’re preparing their little world with so much joy.
If you’d like to join us on this journey, we’ve created a baby wish list with a few of our favourite pieces chosen for their beauty and usefulness.
Here’s the link: [Link to the list]
Of course, there’s absolutely no obligation — your presence and kind thoughts mean the world to us already.

For a short message (WhatsApp or SMS)
Our family is about to grow...
If you’d like to join us on this adventure, here’s our baby wish list:
[Link]
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts

A more poetic version
A little light is growing inside us, and its cocoon is slowly taking shape.
For those who would like to help weave it, we’ve gathered our baby essentials in a wish list.
You can find it here: [Link]
Thank you for your presence and your kind thoughts.

A final word

Sharing your baby wish list is a way to invite loved ones into a meaningful moment. It’s not a request — it’s a warm and open invitation.

And once baby arrives, a small thank-you note will always be appreciated. It doesn’t have to be long — a few heartfelt lines to show your gratitude are more than enough.

Still planning your own wish list?

Explore Petite Amélie’s thoughtful collection for your baby’s first years — from baby shower gift ideas and beautiful baby wardrobes, to soft and breathable baby bedding and charming nursery wall décor — all carefully chosen to support real everyday needs with style and simplicity.